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My self-esteem as a woman, however, took a big hit.Intellectually, I know it shouldn’t, but the cultural messaging of revulsion and burdensomeness around disability that I was taught as a child and my inability to meet conventional definitions of womanly beauty, make me feel unattractive.It was wonderful, and scared me, and made me hyper self conscious about being disabled.
I have a social life, opinions, ideas and feelings just like everybody else.
Outside of Granada, Spain, a truck hit the car I was riding in while I slept in the back seat.
I woke up on the side of the road, paralyzed from the chest down.
But in the climate that prevailed at the time, people were shocked that I dared to hope for romance and physical intimacy. I was taught all of societies’ biases: that people with disabilities are different, sub-human, to be avoided (which is why we segregated them).
It was as if, somehow, my disability made me less human to them. And yet, when I became one of “them,” I was, still me.