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In a recent post on Resurgence titled “5 Notes on Dating for the Guys,” Mars Hill Church Everett executive pastor Brandon Andersen seeks to help guys think about what it means to be “intentional” when talking to or dating a girl.He lays out seven situations and prescriptively delineates the attitude a guy should have in each one.Andersen summarizes, “The big idea is this, men: Don't keep her guessing. It is a risk of course, but better on you than her. Such an absolute dictum forces relational growth into something mechanistic and awkwardly coordinated, rather than natural, with some breathing room and uncertainty.Uncertainty is not a loss of masculinity but an ownership of humanity.Eventually, a clarifying conversation should come, and the girl rightly expects it, but maintaining crisp romantic articulateness at all times will most likely weird her out (and if it doesn't, it probably should).Guys can't be expected to know how to answer these questions at all times: (1) What is this relationship? (3) How are you demonstrating those intentions right now?He said he likes to take things slow before making it official, which is fine by me. I told him we won't have sex until we're "official".He always talks about how we would make a great couple, he could see us being together for a long time, etc etc. If he currently, technically sleep with other people and he's not making moves to tie it down? I know it's a pretty thin line since we're already doing other things, but oh well.

I will give you a call this week.” The intentional man also says (if things are going well), “I think you are a godly, beautiful woman, and I have [a] great time with you.

) How long should you be dating someone before you become a couple/boyfriend/girlfriend? I've never let a dating situation linger that long though.

I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months, 5 or 6 big dates/sleepovers (once every two weeks), we get along great in almost every way. Just to be clear, we do sexual things but we're not having sex.

Relationships in general are not so black-and-white, and they are far less so in the context of attraction and romance.

Yet he says that if you don't act black and white, you're falling short of your responsibilities as a man.

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