For dating older guys
She feels sorry for the few girls who were clearly older than the others - probably over 30; they definitely aren't getting in.The 32-year-old meets her two girlfriends at an upscale lounge that they've come to like, mostly because it is never too loud and has a good layout, conducive to meeting new people.The 23-year-old has had one serious boyfriend in her life.She slept with him during all of the 3 years they dated, until he broke up with her soon after they graduated from college.As the 32-year-old gets out of the cab in front of the lounge where she'll meet her friends, the sharp cold bites at her face.It reminds her of the time three years ago when she first met her ex boyfriend. She'd seen him looking at her earlier across the bar she was at with her friends, but he didn't approach.In the back of her mind she knows there will be attractive men out tonight, and she is hoping to eventually meet someone she can date seriously.
As the 32-year-old orders her drink, she chats with the bartender for a bit, because she knows that even a brief conversation with a stranger (male or female) will get her into a more social mood, which might help later if any men want to talk to her.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
Two women step out of their front doors on a Friday night in New York City.
She learned that trick when she first moved to the city and sometimes went out alone.
In fact, she'd met one of the girls she was with tonight that way.