Exlusive dating

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But the reality is, when we’re in it, when we’re dating, when we think we’ve found someone who might be the one, when we’re feeling that incredible chemistry, when we’re so lonely we don’t know if we can be alone another minute, when he finally notices us and asks us out, when we feel like we can’t breathe if we don’t hear from him, when we’re so scared to lose him, when we feel like without him we have nothing, when we’re sure he must be lying dead in the gutter somewhere because that's the only reason he would've disappeared like that, we can’t see that we’re about to make a huge mistake.

When we’re in over our heads emotionally and can’t think clearly we’re not able to be objective about what we’re doing.

You've made a commitment to be faithful and put energy in only that relationship.

Some men (and even some women) feel that exclusive means that there is no hooking up with someone else (i.e.

Because I had no idea how much heartbreak and misery I could have saved myself if someone had only told me what huge mistakes I was making by doing some of the these things, I'm going to tell you about the huge mistakes you are making (and we all make).

So here’s my list for you of what I consider to be the top five biggest dating mistakes. At the time, I would have thought that dating more than one person at the same time was just downright slutty.

I have found that the best rule to follow here is not the amazing chemistry barometer when you’re in the heat of the moment (which is not going to be very objective) but instead the rule of waiting until you have a firm commitment from him and you’re both exclusively committed to each other.

Hear me loud and clear here - , he was someone worth proving myself to that I was worthy of his love.

It didn’t matter if I barely knew him, if I knew very little about his character, his values, his integrity, or even him.

Commitment is when lives are intertwined so much that our lives become one unified life and others have to check in with you and your partner if they want to make plans. This is the only way to know you're exclusive: talk about it.

At some point in your relationship this will come up—it doesn’t just happen. It’s when both couples have a clear notion of who their partner is: faults, flaws and weaknesses in all their glory; and yet they make a conscious choice to be with that person in spite of all of those things (and in some cases, because of those things).

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