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Everything in our culture drills “men make the first move” into women’s heads.The traditional gender roles of man-as-aggressor are continually reinforced by our culture and society; witness the slut-shaming that Miley Cyrus gets for being an active – rather than passive – sexual performer.Even in this day and age, the sexually-aggressive woman is a figure of ridicule (especially if she’s played by Rebel Wilson rather than Kim Cattrall) .have the specter of generations of socialization and gender roles that says “men don’t like girls who are too forward” and “if you make the first move, they’ll think you’re a slut” being dropped on top of that like a 400 lb weight on a balloon full of shit.I’m a girl, an American-Indian girl, and therefore am not Swedish.But I have a few Swedish girlfriends and they all have opinions of their fellow male counterparts. Swedish guys have done a good job of losing their balls over the years, part thanks to feminism, part thanks to super tight jeans that served as self castrating devices.They have issues with aggressive or strong women – women who don’t conform to the “traditional values” of being meek and subservient, and a woman who flouts convention in that way will repulse them.Yes, finding out early that a guy is threatened by assertive women is generally a .
” I wonder that too, and I’ll put the blame on the dark swedish winter and the bright swedish summer.The manner in which they approach you tells you a When you’re making the approach, unless you’ve been scoping them for a while, you’ve got considerably less info to work with.And that lack of info can be especially important for women.Boredom, lack of balls, and overall disappointment are contributing factors. Like I said, if you are male and not Swedish, you already have a leading position.If you have the ability to speak to girls without being a pussy and make good conversation, again, major brownie posts.