And without self-help work in this area conflict will invariably seep its way in any future relationship with them.Being treated as a priority by a partner (and my husband does!These might be simple things, like saying they will call you back shortly and never do, or something larger like saying they won’t talk to an ex any more, yet continue to do so.The important thing is to pay attention to the words/action correlation and if patterns of mismatch occur you’re entering the flag raising territory.The things that are clearly wrong with the partner or the relationship itself.
As the titles indicate, this happens when your partner does NOT correspond with those words.
My best advice to those who see even small signs of this kind of behavior early on in a relationship is to NOT accept and quickly move on.
Real behavioral changes for any person takes lots of work, so if your partner (or even date) has tumultuous relationships with numerous exes, and/or has lots of conflicts with people around them, then it’s fair to assume they have conflict-resolution issues.
Stanley, a research professor and co-director of the Center for Marital and Family Studies at the University of Denver, “A young couple marrying for the first time today has a lifetime divorce risk of 40 percent, unless current trends change significantly.” For me, the key word in this statement is the term “Trend”.
A divorce rate of 4 out of 10 is just unnecessarily high and we, as a society need to figure out ways to lower it.