Dating men in their 30s
"Now, in your 30s, priorities are changing, biological realities are setting in and your focus is to find someone with whom you can build a life and have children." It isn't just that the dating pool is smaller after 30, it's also that your brain has literally changed since you were 21 and sidling up to the hottie at the bar.
"Brain development is the primary reason dating after 30 is so different," said David Ezell, the clinical director at Darien Wellness.
When you were 20 years old, you liked to demonstrate that you could get any guy."This is when dating services come in handy, to find the others that are available and ready to date." Laura Ryan, a licensed marriage and family therapist, certified hypnotherapist, and certified Imago Relationship Therapist agreed."Many eligible men have now gotten married or are in long term relationships because nesting and settling down is something that starts to happen in your late 20s and people begin to marry and have children in their 30s," she said.When you were in your 20s, you probably had many insecurities and that's why your man would take control in bed.However, a few years and experiences later, you realized your potential and you know exactly what excites you in bed.